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My new strategy for Math now is to do every question as if I were in the exam - the same intensity of thought, focus and determination to get things right (though mostly wrong) even if I still don't get how numbers mean anything. My old basketball coach told me that one of my strengths was that I train as if I am in an actual game, and that I play every game like it is my last. Now when I do Math I have an image of myself hustling, diving, yelling - basically just take-no-prisoners like it was on the court - and instead of 'let's play like savages and sort them out boys' it's 'let's show these Math questions who's boss'; essentially though, it's the same idea.
Except midway through the Math mock paper the choir group that had already been working on their vocals in the adjacent lecture theatre - and was already a cause for some giggling in the 'simulation room' - suddenly start singing the school's conduct songs. The conduct songs were only sung in high school, and they've always enjoyed a sort of special place amongst the high school guys which means that the last level assembly we had in Sec Four - when we last belted out the lyrics to these songs - was the only time I have seen many of my friends so sentimental about something, anything. We'd always end each conduct song with a resounding '嘿’ even though for four years straight the teacher assigned to our level reprimanded us for embellishing the song with self-created lyrics, but then only smiled and seemed like he was about to tear when we shouted out ‘嘿’ that one last time, after boys in shorts turned into boys in long pants, and didn't tell us off for it.
When the conduct songs came on in the next room and the choir voiced out those all-too-familiar words, I turned to Yinn Ray beside me, but he was busy punching shit into his calculator and didn't notice. The both of us sometimes speak about how it's a pity we only met in JC, and I realise that's also how I feel about a lot of the people I have met these past 1 and 3/4 years. But really, this lad's been pretty special, and it'd have been great stuff if we both knew each other prior to "A Levels-or-else" days.
And then there's Caleb and that high school friendship that I'm truly glad we somehow rekindled over the last four-five months. Yesterday beneath rain-cleared skies we marvelled at how it is that we were never in the same class in our four years at high school despite both being from Ortus (which is essentially a house/faculty except that it's only three-four classes per level). There was a good one in three chance across all four years that we could have been classmates but never were; and then again I slip back into talking about “ifs” and "lasts" - maybe (another one) I should stop.
But maybe I shouldn't. Screw the maybes. Because in recent weeks I've thought about how some people come into your lives and leave their mark. Reflecting on my pseudo-writing journey landed me deeper into that thought, especially when I think about how everything that's come my way has been helped along by people around me. When I had my writing published in the student newspaper for the first time, my lower sec classmates would grab copies of The Straits Times more hurriedly than ever, and, week in week out, 30 kids in shorts made it a point to flip through the entirety of the paper to find my piece. I wasn't - and still am not - quite adept enough at showing just how much I appreciated all that, mostly because the attention is always somewhat embarrassing, but I've come to think about how little things like that go a very, very long way.
I was in fact foolishly working at Math even before that three hour mad Math mistake, and this is proof that my new strategy really makes me more crazily 'in the zone' as ever, because this guy called Bryan managed to creep up behind and hunch over me for a good thirty seconds, before making his presence known with a bellow that terrorised me more than I admitted it did. Four years in the same class, and yet I'm never guarded against his dumb-ass pranks. These days he tells me, "Bye, I'm going to look for my girlfriend." But still the same.
Jian Yan, who forces me to return his Gatsby reference book, in between my quips about Malaysia. Jonathan, who I meet for lunch a few days ago, but then two other guys we both half-know sit with us because they would have otherwise been eating alone, and we don't actually bring ourselves to tell them we'd meant to be catching up. Brandon, who warns himself and the basketball he's holding about my erm, hands. When I tell him "You remember..." he replies, "Of course, we're on the same team", and there's that thing about him saying those words in the present tense that let me know - still the same.
Edwin, Edwin-who-almost-makes-me-late-for-History-to-talk-about-history; he sits with his arms clutching his bag but holds nothing back - always open and sharing, and I'm always learning. Shaun Ang, aka Shang, who I somehow keep running into this week while walking down the slope until the days we used to fake sneezes in the auditorium don't seem so far away. Trexel, who has been hanging out with his class at the benches outside the printing shop, of which I walk pass frequently, and so I still have to endure all that trash-talking about Liverpool being a "shitty team". That lad is still perpetually grinning. The same, the same.
"What are friends for?" is Check King's way of saying "you're welcome" in a half-clowning fashion. He - like that k and that a in the Math mock paper - is a constant.
I know the guys don't ever read this site - that is probably a good thing, because if there's one thing about friendships between lads - or what I think should be called "lads-ship" - it's that it does without the mawkish word-infested outwardly declarations and displays of care and gratitude. It's the same reason why I get a lot of shit from guys for being a creature of sentiment (and not logic or reason, which probably explains my mathematical ineptitude, because there is absolutely no sentimentality or human emotions contained in the rigidity of numbers).
The guys who I've found to be almost as sentimental are actually the fellow Liverpool fans. It's no coincidence, honestly. We care the most about things. The other day I saw Caleb's reaction to the thunder and lightning that almost threatened to stop us from playing footy, and it struck me that it is the very same, obsessive and quick-to-being-depressed-but-still-with-some-deluded-hope-that-the-rain-will-stop-even-though-it's-raining-bollocks state of mind that Shaun Lee and I were in far too often earlier this year, when our class was supposed to have football, but that period coincided with the rainy season. Dylan would also kick up a big fuss every time the lightning alert came on at the school's football pitch. Harn Ern would despair. I guess it seems a tad childish that we'd get so upset about something as 'trivial' as not being able to play ("You can always play another time, guys"), but it shows the wanting and the caring above all. I know it comes down to growing up watching a team that's all about belief and hope and passion.
I've observed that our ability to care extends beyond the action on the pitch. Shaun Lee debating, or Shaun Lee with debating withdrawal symptoms when he almost seems like he's lost a whole part of himself - he cares more than anyone. Caleb, for the people around him. Harn Ern, for his music. As for me, I hope the caring comes through in the verve for whatever work I've done. For Pub Soc, I guess we could have just did the work within our purview, which is to simply edit writing and coordinate all the pieces, but the caring meant that it always had to be more than that, that from the start I told the team that we're going to create a lot, a lot of work for ourselves pushing through new plans and ideas. It is no coincidence that Shaun is the guy who played a crucial role in the debating team successfully advancing a proposal to organise a tournament, raising their own money to hire Hwa Chong Debate's first ever coach, since their club was not allocated sufficient funds by the school.
Even beyond the work, there's that nagging sentimentality about place and people that I've seen in every Red. I can't tell you how many times Shaun and I have spoken about things ending - more than I have done with anyone, and it's not as if we have that many one-on-one talks. Caleb and I sat on the side of the street football court, chatting about everything under the Sun (which had triumphantly emerged as clouds dissipated). He then tells me all of a sudden, perhaps with the possibility that this could be one of the last times we sit here before As at the back of his mind, "I'm gonna miss this place."
"The street football court?"
"No, this place."
I want to tell him that we've spoken about that before, because when we had our last ever PE lesson two months or so ago, the rain had forced us to stop and we eventually took a walk around the new Block D, and then the canteen and benches. It seems like my conversations with other Liverpool fans always slip back into glances at days of yesteryear, and there's probably some joke about Liverpool fans living in the past there. I think to myself how unhealthy near constant reminiscence must seem, and so I don't tell him. I also don't tell him that we've thrice spoken about that one time in Sec 4 when the Ortus football lads Chetwin, Zhiying, Haowei, Chester, Oliver, Dylan, Zach, Caleb and I skipped a combined Chinese class in the lead-up to Higher Chinese Os to play at the International School court; that is, until Zach Wu rolled down the side of a hill when retrieving the ball and ripped a hole in the back of his pants. The two of us remember it very well. Minor details might differ each time we tell that story, but ultimately, all the same.
It's Shaun who pointed out that next week, we'll actually get to sing the conduct songs when they are played at our Graduation. Over the years I've tried to curb my tendency to build things up in my head, and nonetheless, when that piano accompaniment accompanies us to mark this final lap next Friday, it will all be the same - Liverpool fan or not - always, forever, in some way, or another.
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